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If you have recently gone through the breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you are undoubtedly asking yourself the question “how to get my ex back“. The first piece of advice and possibly the most important, is to avoid the temptation to pick up the phone and try to call him or her over and over, or send text messages asking to talk, or asking why. All this will do the same to drive your ex further away. You have to remember that they broke up with you for a reason. You may not know that reason right now, but there is one. So the idea that they are suddenly going to want to talk to after no doubt thinking about getting away from you for quite a while is not realistic. This does not mean that they will eventually be willing to communicate with you. If you let a week or two pass, call a cooling off period, the chances are very good that eventually your ex will talk with you and maybe even explain in more detail why he or she broke up with you. Only then will you be able to start the process of trying to fix the relationship and getting your ex back.