How I Began getting him back
Miscellaneous January 18th. 2010, 4:45amFirst, it took some time. Second, it took some dedication. Third, well it took a real big shift in both my way of thinking and in my behavior. I finally snapped to it: I was not going to be getting him back by acting like an overly possessive and jealous nut. I had to be relaxed, friendly, approachable, and very non judgmental. Frankly, I had to learn a bit on the subject of biting my tongue instead of saying crazy things. I found some good assistance by looking on the web, and beyond that I had to learn to use some common sense!